December 1, 2017, Keter Sepheroth, Cosmic East
Friday, Yellow Planetary Human, Kin 192, Third Eye
We have articles about hugging in the Ark of the Covenant, Chapter 2, Day 25.
In the Ark and the Canoe, Chapter 28, Day 2, I talk about hand positions and the importance of the laying on of hands healing.
Touch is of major importance for the child. In hospitals now, there are women who volunteer to hold preemies, and babies who have been born drug-addicted. Human touch is most healing for them.
Touch, holding and embracing can not be underestimated for all humans including the newly returning Divinely Human Being. We all have an inner child within us!
Why Men Need More Platonic Touch in their Lives
By Mark Greene
In preparing to write about the lack of gentle touch in men’s lives, I right away thought, “I feel confident I can do platonic touch, but I don’t necessarily trust other men to do it. Some guy will do something creepy. They always do”. Quickly on the heels of that thought, I wondered, “Wait a minute, why do I distrust men in particular?” The little voice in my head didn’t say, “I don’t necessarily trust people to not be creepy”, it said, “I don’t trust men”.
In American culture, we believe that men can never be entirely trusted in the realm of the physical. We collectively suspect that, given the opportunity, men will revert to the sexual at a moment’s notice. That men don’t know how to physically connect otherwise. That men can’t control themselves. That men are dogs.
There is no corresponding narrative about women.
Touch Isolation
Accordingly, it has become every man’s job to prove they can be trusted, in each and every interaction, day by day and case by case. In part, because so many men have behaved poorly. And so, we prove our trustworthiness by foregoing physical touch completely in any context in which even the slightest doubt about our intentions might arise. Which, sadly, is pretty much every context we encounter.
We crave touch. We are cut off from it. The result is touch isolation.
And where does this leave men? Physically and emotionally isolated. Cut off from the deeply human physical contact that is proven to reduce stress, encourage self esteem and create community. Instead, we walk in the vast crowds of our cities alone in a desert of disconnection. Starving for physical connection.
We crave touch. We are cut off from it. The result is touch isolation.
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